Well, I went to the forum you posted and I'm not sure what kind of forum it is? As a Baha'i we do not proselytize. Nor will we seek out arguments concerning religion. We believe each individual is on a search and so we are ready and willing to answer questions that are put forth. We believe that each of us have free will and when we exercise this freedom through the 'self-investigation for truth', then we will find God. If there are people on a forum that are discussing God or Jesus or whatever, then they would seem to be on a search and that is something you can be thankful for.
Having said that, teardrop, if them and you are there to simply argue points, then very little will ever get done. If a persons heart isn't open to receive the Truths of God, then they will simply drowned in their own dogma and preconceived notions.
Could you explain what this forum represents?
Mick